A teen screaming

Anger in Teens: What’s Really Going On Under the Surface

Teen anger can feel personal—but it usually isn’t. Anger is often a protective emotion that shows up when a teen feels unsafe, overwhelmed, ashamed, or powerless.

Instead of only addressing the anger, it helps to look underneath it.

What Teen Anger Often Covers Up

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Trauma and hypervigilance
  • Bullying or social rejection
  • Low self-esteem and shame
  • Stress from school or expectations
  • Family conflict and lack of control

How Therapy Helps With Anger

Therapy helps teens learn to:

  • Identify triggers before escalation
  • Regulate emotions and calm their body
  • Communicate needs more effectively
  • Replace impulsive reactions with coping skills
  • Build confidence and problem-solving skills